Campaign Story

Hi, my name is Pam, and I’m fundraising to support one more chance at building the family I’ve longed for.

Two years ago, I conceived twins through IUI. Tragically, I lost both babies during my pregnancy and delivered my son stillborn. That loss changed me forever. Since then, I’ve gone through multiple IUI cycles and one round of IVF, which gave me just two embryos — only one of which was viable. Sadly, that embryo transfer was not successful.

I’m now 40 years old, and I live with endometriosis and other medical challenges that make the path to parenthood more complex — but not impossible. What I do have is a few remaining vials of donor sperm, a strong heart, and an unwavering hope to try again.

After years of emotional and physical trauma within the Canadian healthcare system, I’ve come to the difficult but clear decision to seek fertility care abroad. I believe a different country, with different protocols and a fresh approach, could give me the best possible chance at success.

I’m raising funds to help cover the cost of IVF treatment outside of Canada, along with travel, accommodation, and time away from work. The financial burden is heavy, and I can’t do this alone.

I know there are no guarantees in this journey. But I also know that, with more time and more resources, I have a real chance to carry a pregnancy and raise a child. Becoming a mother again— and getting the chance to raise a living child — remains my deepest hope.

If you’re able to contribute, share, or simply hold my story with compassion, I am deeply grateful. Your support means more than you can imagine.

With love,
Pam